• If your brain has ever felt like a hamster wheel at midnight, you’re not alone. So many people I talk to say the same thing: “The second my head hits the pillow, my thoughts go wild.”

• That’s because nighttime gives our minds quiet space — and that’s when unprocessed worries like to show up and audition for attention. Overthinking is your brain’s way of trying to solve every problem before you fall asleep, but it just ends up keeping you wired and exhausted.

• Here are five therapist-approved ways to quiet that mental noise and finally rest:

• 1. Name your thoughts instead of fighting them.

• When a thought pops up (“What if I mess up at work tomorrow?”), try saying, “That’s my anxious brain planning again.” Labeling it gives you distance and power over it.

• 2. Give your brain a “worry window.”

• Set aside 15 minutes earlier in the day to write out whatever’s on your mind. When the thoughts show up at night, remind yourself, “I’ve already scheduled time for this tomorrow.”

• 3. Use grounding techniques.

• Try the 5-4-3-2-1 method: name 5 things you see, 4 things you can touch, 3 you can hear, 2 you can smell, and 1 you can taste. It’s simple, but it pulls your brain back into the present moment.

• 4. Put your phone to bed before you go to bed.

• Scrolling keeps your nervous system alert. Give yourself at least 30 minutes screen-free before lights out.

• 5. Journal, breathe, or stretch instead of spiraling.

• Keep a notebook by your bed to brain-dump anything looping in your head, then do ten slow belly breaths. Your body will get the hint: it’s safe to relax.

• If overthinking keeps stealing your sleep, therapy can help you quiet your mind and find rest again. I offer online counseling across Texas — calm nights really are possible.
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If you’ve been running on fumes for months and even rest doesn’t help, it’s not laziness — it’s burnout.

Burnout sneaks up slowly. You might notice:

• You’re snapping at people you normally love being around.
  
  

• You can’t focus on anything for long.
  
  

• You feel guilty for wanting a break — but also resentful that you never get one.
  
  

• You keep thinking, “Something has to give.”
  
  

Burnout isn’t just exhaustion; it’s emotional depletion. It happens when you’ve given too much for too long without recharging.

Here’s how to start turning it around:

1. Set boundaries without guilt.

“No” is a complete sentence. Every time you say yes to something that drains you, you say no to something that could restore you.

2. Reconnect with small joys.

Start with five minutes of something that makes you feel human again — music, sunlight, stretching, reading for fun. Small joy compounds.

3. Ask for help before you hit the wall.

Whether it’s therapy, leaning on a friend, or asking family to share the load, support isn’t a weakness. It’s survival.

4. Give yourself permission to rest.

You don’t have to earn rest by burning out first. You deserve it now.

You don’t have to stay stuck in the cycle of doing, helping, and collapsing. Therapy can help you rebuild your balance, peace, and self-trust.
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